Oh, and just in case you're interested, it really is on my list:
- I did not want to be entangled with my ex-husband for the rest of my life.
- I am a wuss when it comes to pain and labour scares the daylights out of me.
- I do not want to pass on traits such as diabetes and depression to anyone.
- Granted, the above relate to biological children. But even with adoption, there remains the fact that I am, being an only child with little child care experience, rather afraid of children. Even as a child I related better with the adults (see 6 for why). I like children in theory and love many things relating to children, but when confronted by a child, especially one who is not of an age to play with, such as the very young or teenagers, I don't know how to relate. I'd be a better children's author than children's librarian or mother.
- I would constantly worry and obsess about my children neurotically without letting them breathe and giving them space to grow.
- Children are holy terrors, especially as toddlers and teenagers.
- The world has quite enough population, thank you, without me adding to it.
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